Re: trauma

From: David Parker (cdickens@RMPLC.CO.UK)
Date: Fri Feb 12 1999 - 06:36:38 PST


My dear Miss Mytton,

  You speak with some authority on the subject of emotions, but I am far
from convinced you do so with entire accuracy.  My generation is often
accused by yours of insufficiently expressing its emotions.  I venture to
suggest, howeve, that mine enjoyed an emotional life every bit as rich as
yours does.  Consider a favourite among my creatures, Esther Summerson in
"Bleak House."  Hard experience has accustomed her to self-effacement,
reticence, self-denial, but I try to show that her loving heart is as large
and generous as that beating in any breast.  I like to think I succeeded.
  Perhaps my stoicism harmed me, but I do not think it blunted my emotions.


Faithfully yours,


Charles Dickens

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-----Original Message-----
From: Jill Mytton <mytton@xena.uel.ac.uk>
To: cdickens@rmplc.co.uk <cdickens@rmplc.co.uk>
Date: 11 February 1999 15:15
Subject: Re: trauma


>
>Dear Mr Dickens
>Thank you for your prompt reply - I will have to peruse Dombey and
>Son again for it is some time since I last read your excellent books,
>I am fortunate to have them all.
>
>I wonder though how stoicism affected your ability to write -
>stoicism I would imagine is a form of what we would now call
>'avoidance' and this tends to blunt the emotions.
>
>I have currently 'treated' a man who suffered from an incident where
>a 'dumper truck' (forgive my 20th century phrases) toppled over and
>landed on the top of his car (this is a motorised carriage). He
>suffered from many symptoms similar to your own but I am happy to
>report that he is now free of them. What a pity such treatment was
>not available in your day.
>
>Faithfully yours
>Jill Mytton
>
>
>
>> My dear Miss Mitton,
>>
>>   Alas, in the middle of the nineteenth century, we tended not to think
of
>> writing as therapy.  Never, in my fiction, did I write of experiences
such
>> as mine at Staplehurst except, curiously, in "Dombey and Son," before the
>> accident happened.  My only rememdy was stoicism.
>>
>>
>> Faithfully yours,
>>
>>
>> Charles Dickens
>>
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>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: Jill Mytton <mytton@whstaff1.uel.ac.uk>
>> To: David Parker <cdickens@rmplc.co.uk>
>> Date: 10 February 1999 17:42
>> Subject: Re: trauma
>>
>>
>> Dear Mr Dickens
>> Thank you so much for your informative reply. Since receiving it I
>> regret to say that I  have been much inflicted with influenza and am
>> only now able to address a considerable pile of mail.
>>
>> I was very interested in your answer - it certainly sounds to me as
>> if you did indeed suffer from what is now called Post Traumatic
>> Stress Disorder. Did you,  may I ask, use your considerable writing
>> skills to help you resolve your anxiety? Perhaps you included the
>> story in one of your wonderful books? I believe I have read somewhere
>> that you certainly referred to it in letters - but I thought that
>> maybe retelling the event in a story might have helped you come to
>> terms with this very unpleasant incident.
>>
>> Faithfully yours
>>
>> Jill Mytton
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> From:          David Parker <cdickens@rmplc.co.uk>
>> > To:            mytton <mytton@uel.ac.uk>
>> > Subject:       Re: trauma
>> > Date:          Tue, 15 Dec 1998 15:26:26 -0000
>>
>> > My dear Miss Mytton,
>> >
>> >   In June 1865, I was in the train involved in a serious accident at
>> > Staplehurst in Kent.  Ten people were killed, about fifty injured.
>> > For months afterwards I was overcome from time to time by anxiety,
>> > sometimes almost amounting to panic, especially when travelling at
>> > speed, if only in my own phaeton.  I cannot say whether this was
>> > what you call Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
>> >
>> >
>> > Faithfully yours,
>> >
>> >
>> > Charles Dickens
>> > ______________________________________________________
>> >
>> > -----Original Message-----
>> > From: Jill Mytton <mytton@xena.uel.ac.uk>
>> > To: cdickens@rmplc.co.uk <cdickens@rmplc.co.uk>
>> > Date: 11 December 1998 08:37
>> > Subject: trauma
>> >
>> >
>> > >
>> > >Dear Mr Dickens
>> > >Rumour has it that you suffered from some trauma in your life that
gave
>> you
>> > symptoms
>> > >similar to those classified as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder today.
>> > >Can you confirm this please - I am contributing to a text book on
trauma
>> > and my chapter is
>> > >concerned with historical references to trauma.
>> > >
>> > >I am grateful to you for your consideration
>> > >Yours truly
>> > >
>> > >Jill Mytton
>> > >University of East London
>> > >
>> > >
>> > >
>> >
>> Jill Mytton, MSc., C.Psychol.,
>> Counselling Psychologist,
>> University of East London,
>> Romford
>> London E15 4LZ
>> Phone: 0181 590 7000 ext.4456
>> E-mail: E.J.Mytton@uel.ac.uk
>>
>>
>>
>>
>
>


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